Priorities

I don't even want to go into the details, but between over ten thousand dollars' worth of expenses, and another ten thousand dollars' worth of lost revenue due to contracts canceling, the piggy bank is now empty. No money for a honeymoon, no money to buy tickets to fly everybody in for a Texas wedding, no money for hotels and dinners and flowers and a photographer and a cupcake wedding cake. The question is, do we postpone the wedding until the coffers are full again, or do we take my little mother's advice and just elope?